Everyone has done a little judging of others. I am in fact one of the guilty ones. We know it's wrong to judge people but we still do it. Like you can be on the bus and you saw some girl standing at the bus stop and you go, "She has fat legs." Or like the other day, a girl was taking a picture and she saw me looking at her, she said, "Oh no my bra is showing." To her companion, giggled and gave me a sidelong glance. What came to my head was immediate, "Then don't wear a thin strap dress with your bright blue bra if you don't want it to be seen."
People judged and you can't stop them. The differences are some are ashamed of it and others strive on it. Those who strived on it take a certain pleasures from these. They form an opinion or conclusion about something and they can create a lengthy conversation with it.
Maybe you can stop yourself if not others. How do you stop from saying a snide comment or banished the thought of it from your head altogether? I still don't know. I'm trying to better myself but sometimes I can't stop an unwanted opinion from popping into my head. What give me the right to comment about them when I myself have a lot of flaws to work on? I can only turn my head away. Maybe when the thought arise, I will point out something lovely about them instead.
"What is she- Oh I wish I have her hair."
"Tsk, look at her- She has a beautiful smile."
I can try. I don't know whether it will work but I can certainly try. I hope I can do this. Wish me luck. :)
Have a lovely day.
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